Take time...

I️ just read a post about men being emotionally unavailable and not wanting to admit it. It’s possible for anyone to be emotionally unavailable. It just sucks to be the person who is on the other side trying to work with you if you aren’t being open about it. You don’t realize how much you can shut a person out. Everything gets better with time, but don’t selfishly waste others’ time during your process while you’re not allowing God to handle you single handedly... knowing that you can’t give this person what they desire or need yet continuing to keep them around. I pray that I can not only release hurts that can cause an issue for how I️ handle the blessing of my future but that the man I end up with can do the same. I’ve been on the blind side of this table before and it hurts. Open communication offers fairness and fertilization for a healthy relationship. Take time to heal... Time that you can’t ask for after someone else’s emotions are involved and relationships start escalating because it ends up hurting someone who didn’t deserve it. We all need a little watering sometimes... growth is everything. ❤️ #jewelsofknowledge #whatdoesyourgardengrow