M.A.S.H.

There was a time in all of our lives when we thought a silly game like M.A.S.H. could help us determine our future. Then we all grow up and realize that we have a say in our future. Some people seem like they are still playing M.A.S.H but I am into a vision board. I've shared in a previous blog the importance of setting obtainable goals for yourself and achieving them. Some things you know you won't ever obtain but it's nice to dream sometimes right? I was once told to be careful how I share my dreams and aspirations b/c there are some people who prey on your failure. Well honey, if that's your goal for me then you are up for a battle since I serve an amazing God who continuously blesses me. So here's a peak at my vision board.

 First thing's first... You can't achieve much or anything at all without the funds. I need to get my career up and running, and with the help of the Lord I'll be able to add Dr. in front of my name in about 6 months. Two months after that I'll be licensed to work and get things moving.

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 Who doesn't want a nice car?

I am still driving my 1st car which I acquired in 2006 from my sister. It's a 1999 Toyota model that I like to call Lucille b/c of this obsession I had with Lucille Ball and I Love Lucy Show. She only has like 115K miles and has seldom given me issues. Thank God. I've always been thankful for my car b/c unlike many others including my own siblings, I didn't get a car until a month before I made 22 years old. I think that was potentially a strategy my mother had in which I'm bound to talk about in a future blog. Lucille's definitely been old faithful for me and may not be a beauty any more but she's mine and unlike many other people I know, I own the titles to her. Needless to say, one day I'd like to pick out my new ride. At that point, I won't be happy with having to pay a car note for the 1st time, but everything comes with a price.

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 Who wants a new car without owning a driveway to put it in?

I'd love to wake up in my own bed of my own home, cook in my own kitchen and decorate a Christmas tree at my own house (Although I'm sure I'll still be responsible for assembling my mother's Christmas decor). Now if I was rich, I'd so get a Victorian style mansion like the one pictured here on St. Charles Ave, New Orleans, LA like the one pictured below. There's nothing wrong with shooting for the moon b/c even if I land amongst the stars, that's alright with me. ;)

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It took more than one helping hand to get me where I am. It's funny how God places people in your life. With that said, I'd like to give back to those who helped lift me up. One group in particular is called the Quelles Nouvelles Chapter of the American Business Women's Association. This group consists of diverse women  of all career backgrounds (predominantly middle aged and up it seemed) who strive to uplift women who are trying to further themselves educationally. At the time I was applying for undergrad and during my undergrad years, they offered 5 scholarships a year for deserving young women. I received this scholarship all 4 of my years at Xavier University of Louisiana. What was the most moving was that the year after Katrina hit, which was my senior year, the group no longer had the funds to award 5 people. They decided to honor just one person and that person was me. I can't tell you how humbled I was by that and how I often think of them now. I'd like to give someone the same chance that they offered me.

 http://www.rciforeclosurecenter.com/givingbacktocommunity

I often dally with this idea from time to time. It makes the vision board simply b/c it's such a frequent thought. I love being in control of my working situation. I've been a manager and although it has it's own share of headaches, I enjoyed being in control of my situation. With that being said, with my profession, I enjoy dictating how I want to conduct my exams, how many patients I want to see and who I want working for me. The reason why I struggle with the idea is b/c of the cost and the amount of responsibilities it entails. I must admit, it's really nice to go to work some days with only the concern for your patients and whether or not your check has post to your bank account on time. Lol. 

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One thing I can spot from a mile away is a nice piece of jewelry. There are tones of pieces that I admire and wouldn't mind owning but particularly my eyes are drawn in on engagement rings. My dream ring is 3 carats. I've contemplated the type of cut, setting and color diamond that I want for years now and can't make a decision, but I know that 3 carats is the dream. Anything larger just becomes a bit much for me, and with the profession I have, it becomes a hassle to wear. It really has nothing to do with being flashy but more to do with cosmesis for me. I find larger diamond rings more cosmetically appealing on my fingers since they are so long. I've told people that I aspire to have this and have gotten some negative replies due to the cost and the size but in the end of the day it doesn't matter. A male friend of mine told me that I shouldn't settle for less, and if a man really wants me then he should buy me that ring. Now I won't go far enough to wholeheartedly agree with that, but I will say that if the man I'm dating has the money for it and feels like I deserve it then there's no harm in it. Secondly who in the hell made some people the ultimate dream killers like I can't fantasize about what I want?? Don't try to knock my dream just because you are mad at your man for either not buying you that speck of a diamond on your finger or you are timid of dreaming on a level equivalent or above that in which I am. It's not a deal breaker for me, it's just a dream. I know I just went off on a tangent but it was all out of love. It's my opinion simply put. :)

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In the midst of monetary things, I do one day want a family. Maybe not quite like the one pictured below. Lol. But a family of my own nonetheless. I've always heard that you never know how much you can love someone until you have a child of your own. I'm in no rush by no means necessary nor am I the biggest fan of kids these days, but I imagine that one day I will be ready to have a child of my own. I want it the right way though. Like the old kiddy song says, "First comes love, then comes the marriage, then comes the baby in the baby carriage." Just put about 2 years between marriage and carriage and we are all good. Lol.

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Every step I take up in life, I want to also take a step closer to God. Ultimately building my sense of spiritual peace, tranquility and humbleness. My mother has always taught me from day 1 that humbleness is the way. I can say that that one saying is probably the best lesson and piece of advice I've ever been given. No matter what happened, no matter how well I thought I did something, she'd always bring me back to earth and tell me to remain humble. In addition, a relationship with God is the most important relationship that one will ever experience. If you don't know about it, you better ask about it. 

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